Preparing for Mediation
Preparation is one of the strongest predictors of successful mediation. Preparing doesn’t mean knowing all the answers, it means taking time to reflect, organize, and set realistic expectations.
Before your session, consider:
What issues need to be resolved
What matters most to you long-term
Where you have flexibility
Where you may need support or clarification
Being clear about priorities helps keep discussions productive.
What to Bring to Mediation?
Depending on your situation, preparation may include:
Financial summaries (income, expenses, assets, debts)
Parenting schedules or calendars
Notes on concerns or proposals
Questions you want answered
You don’t need perfect documents - just a reasonable overview.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Mediation is less effective when people:
Arrive unprepared
Focus on blame rather than solutions
Use mediation to “win” rather than resolve
Expect the mediator to take sides
Understanding the purpose of mediation helps avoid frustration.
Are You Ready to Mediate?
You may be ready if you:
Want to avoid court if possible
Are willing to listen and be heard
Can focus on future solutions
Are open to compromise
If so, professional guidance can help move things forward.
Speak to a Mediator
Genesis Mediation of Indiana provides professional family mediation services statewide, with a focus on respectful communication and practical outcomes. Click the link below to schedule a free consultation to see if mediation is right for you.
